Author Archives: Ayustoppydaykay

About Ayustoppydaykay

I am Ayobami Temitope Kehinde, a prolific writer. The posts here are my brainchildren and a lot of them have been featured on my Facebook wall and pages before now. I write inspirational stuffs, fictions, non fictions, poems and plays and sometimes I resort to humour. You may not copy any of my posts without acknowledging me as the author. Thank you for checking up my blogs. I know you will love what I have here. I can also be found on, and

On Dumbing Down

Dear Lady of Substance, I know a lot of ‘concerned’ people, men and women, ‘advise’ smart and intelligent single ladies to stupid down, sorry, to dumb down so they could find husbands. They tell them to hide their cars if … Continue reading

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A Different Spirit

10 people saw themselves as grasshoppers before the Anakites while Caleb and Joshua saw the Anakites as their bread. Continue reading

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Trying The Fire On Yourself

The same prayer you pray for your blood sister(s) and or your daughter(s), that she/they should be great and be everything God made her/them to be, can you sincerely pray it for your wife? The beautiful hopes you have for … Continue reading

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Abigail And Nabal

Man, if you want to marry a woman who is heavily loaded, you have work to do. It is actually an insult to desire a woman of substance as wife if you yourself are not a man of valour. As … Continue reading

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Return From Guilt Trips

If you need to rebuke or correct someone over something that you were once guilty of, do it without feeling unworthy, but do so mercifully . Do it because you don’t want another person to make the same mistake you … Continue reading

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On Yoking

Lady, no matter how confident and strong you are, if you yoke yourself together in a romantic relationship with a man whose idea of manhood is to bring a woman under, your confidence will start to erode and corrode gradually. … Continue reading

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Just like Jacob, He came. Girded in his garments, Versed well in how he talks. “I am he, I am he!” He proclaimed. “Everything you want in him makes me, Can’t you see?” But he couldn’t act for long. From … Continue reading

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